Monday, February 26, 2018

Hey guys, sorry I have been so quiet but somehow life managed to "klap me" ... as in sucker punch me (for the non-South Africans) again. My parents have been in and out of hospital again so I have been playing chef, taxi and shopping assistant for the past two months ... man am I exhausted!

I am however still standing! No mean feat I tell ya, no mean feat.

Solo and sad, my battle song

Sadly I have also not managed to shake off the loneliness and yearning for a life partner, so once again despite my better judgement, I tried online dating. Oh, my holy aunt guys ... #wtf @%&*^
I know that I am overweight and that I am no supermodel ... but Lord have mercy, it is like every weirdo in the universe thinks that I am his best match .... oh, hells to the no!

So once again, I have left the world of cyber dating, disheartened, disillusioned and quite honestly feeling like shit! I would rather be a snivelling pile of self-pity than a self-hating, self-doubting human ... honestly, I would!

So life is still solo and well let's just say ... bah humbug and move on alright?

I did, however, discover THE GREATEST SHOWMAN, a musical movie and I have been enamoured since the moment I first listened to the theme song/anthem "THIS IS ME". In fact, it pretty much describes exactly how I feel. Feelings which can only be described as follows "that the modern man seems unable to look past a woman's physical attributes". It is such a great movie, worth every penny and well Hugh Jackman is not bad to look at either ... and that fabulous song ... do take a listen.

So despite the desire to be paired up with someone, I made a few promises to myself this year and I have started checking off my list, starting with a holiday. I have decided that I will no longer say "when I meet someone", but rather that I will do things even if it means doing it solo or with a friend.

Well, I have an exciting holiday coming up in Vietnam and I just can't wait ... it'll be my first holiday overseas in 17 years and I am beside myself with anticipation. A friend and I are taking a much needed "me time", in a foreign land, with an exotic culture, great shopping and a whole host of other adventures ... so watch this space!

I just want to remind you of what I tell myself each day. 
That no matter what, you are worth the effort, you are enough and you've got this babe!
Go on, conquer the world and show them that you can! ... and if you are anything like me ...

Get up little sister your time has come
the world you despise is now undone
Get up little sister rise and shine
only you can create the heavenly and sublime
Get up little sister and never lay down
for your worth and value lie in your crown

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Sunday, January 21, 2018

Life is pretty fast paced killer these days, the holidays are barely over and already Easter eggs are in the shops ... like how does that even happen! Let's face it, I usually try and wish Valentine's day away ... now that is crazy even for me!

I know I have a busy year ahead of me and whilst in my mind, I am ready to tackle it head on my body is not really all that excited. The fatigue has set in again and some days with my fibro I just feel exhausted. I have made my resolution for this year to live each day as though it is my last ... because honestly if I have learnt one thing, it is that tomorrow is in actual fact a gift not a guarantee.

Because of this, I have decided to try and be healthy, be kind to myself and help my body be as strong as it can be. You all know the supplements I have taken in the past (read more) and I still stand by these but I am an "explorer" by nature and so I have tried a few new natural alternatives to help my body cope better.

Supplementing my body

Firstly I decided to try out Faithful To Nature, I have known about them for years, but have never really made any purchases through them. The experience has been amazing. My order arrived in no time at all and even though there was some confusion with a delivery, they quickly sorted it, resent the missing goods and even a handwritten apology and gift. (You guys are rock stars and will def be my health go to from here on!)

So I have always had hormonal issues, I have since a child hence my broad girth from an early age. It was based on this that I decided to try Maca Root Powder, let me tell you it is quite overwhelming the choices but eventually, I decided on  SUPERFOODS ORGANIC MACA POWDER.

What does Maca do?
MACA is an adaptogen, meaning that it helps the body to adapt to increased stressors. Maca is well known as an amazing hormone balancer, and strength builder. Because of its oxygenating effect on the blood, it has also gained the reputation for being the best natural aphrodisiac (not that this is of any use for me ... tee hee!).

My thoughts: 
So far I have found the malty taste pleasant and I either add this to my smoothies or to my Golden Lattes. I will let you know how my body responds as natural products usually take 6 weeks to be at optimal efficacy.
Retails for R135.00

So hormones are sorted, now for the stress coping

Here I decided to get two products, some capsules and also a powdered supplement mix to also add to my smoothies. As you know with my previous Chronic Fatigue (Adrenal Fatigue) and current Fibromyalgia the adrenal glands are a huge concern. The adrenals become overactive and produce too much cortisol wreaking havoc on my appetite, energy levels and joint pain.

Ever heard of Ashwagandha? Neither had I until my research!

What does Ashwagandha do?
It has been used for over 3,000 years to relieve stress, increase energy levels and improve concentration. ASHWAGANDHA is known as an adaptogen or a natural supplement that humans can take that help to support the body and mind in coping with our stressful, busy lives.

Here are some of the actions of Ashwagandha:
- Reduce anxiety and depression
- Combat effects of stress
- Increase stamina and endurance
- Prevent and treat cancer
- Reduce brain cell degeneration
- Stabilize blood sugar
- Lower cholesterol
- Boost immunity

I got myself ...
Contains 200 capsules
Retails for R105.00

My thoughts:
Well, it is hard to say as these are veggie caps and will take time to work but I will keep you posted.

The powdered supplement mix is ...
Good Life CacaoBoost - Raw Cacao + Ashwagandha + Mushroom Blend

This combination offers the following benefits:
Good Life CacaoBoost is a tasty powder mix of premium certified organic superfoods that nourish your body and support your immune system. Raw Cacao, Ashwagandha, and medicinal mushrooms form a powerful trio that gives your immunity a super boost from these certified organic superfoods.

Ashwagandha is an ancient Ayurvedic remedy for stress and improved digestion, raw cacao boosts happy making neurotransmitters and medicinal mushrooms are amongst the crème de la crème of immune boosters. All without any added sugar, fillers or preservatives to interfere with your daily super boost, Good Life CacaoBoost is a premium plant boost for your health, especially great for vegans.

Retails for R115.00

Here are some of the individual actions:

- Raw Cacao is a fantastic food source of heart-supporting magnesium and also boosts neurotransmitters serotonin, dopamine, and phenylethylamine that help alleviate depression. Raw cacao is also one of the richest sources of antioxidants of any food. It’s even been found to help diminish appetite.

Ashwagandha is a potent adaptogen that helps balance your mood, metabolism and digestion. It’s been used as an Ayurvedic herbal remedy for centuries for managing emotional, mental and physical stress naturally.

- Medicinal Mushrooms have been studied for their amazing immune boosting properties and benefit from stress and anxiety, circulation, muscle health, metabolism, skin and organs.

My thoughts:
This definitely has a mushroomy taste, but you quickly get used to it. The mix itself is great for adding to peanut butter smoothies and gives it a chocolatey taste.

In conclusion

So as you can see these are high in adaptogens which are the bodies natural stress coping mechanisms, I will cover these more in another post. I must, however, say though that I am feeling much better ... not sure if it's all in the mind but I am sticking to this for now.

NB. This is not a sponsored post but rather a post wholly paid by me for me. I would, however, like to mention that I have been super impressed with the delivery. service and products from FAITHFUL TO NATURE and they are definitely my go to online organic health store.

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Tuesday, January 16, 2018

I know I know Christmas is already a distant memory, we have all settled back into the mundane and routine of our day to day lives.

But this year Christmas brought a little "added" excitement for me. Here in South Africa we do not have the Bath & Body Works franchise much to my despair, having travelled in the States I got used a shop virtually being on every block and I love love love the Vanilla body mist. So I guess it goes without saying that when a friend said she was headed for San Fransisco, I was the first to squeal with delight (for both of us of course).

I promptly scoured the Bath & Body Works site and saw that their Limited Edition Christmas Collection was already available, and with their 3 for 2 offer. I was a gonner hook, line and sinker! Trust me if I had more moola at the time I would have done way more damage.

Bath & Body Works Fine Fragrance Mist Review

If you really aren't familiar with the Bath & Body Works brand and you have the store's locally I urge you to splurge, the fragrances are such fun and the candles are too die for.

So here is what I got:

This fragrance is described as:
"A wintry sweet treat blend of fresh vanilla bean, warm caramel, sugar cookies, whipped cream and snowkissed musk"

What did I think?
I absolutely love the warm, rich and buttery undertones of this mist and I will have to find another way to supplement my addiction soon.

This fragrance is described as:
"A blend of Red Apple, Candied Orange, and Winter Rose Petals"

What did I think?
Initially, this mist is quite sweet but it soon settles to a lovely soft, sweet and rather sophisticated fragrance. I do enjoy wearing this on a hot summer day (a contradiction I know), it is light and feminine.

This fragrance is described as:
"A bright-and-early blend of frosted bergamot, mistletoe berry and snowkissed lavender"

What did I think?
This fragrance is of the "water fragrance" family, it's light, fresh and floral - a barely there, but a beautiful fragrance none the less. I love this one for bedtime, it's delightful!

The body mists tend to retail for between $14 - $16, and there are often specials like 2-for-1 or 3-for-2! This Christmas mists only come out once a year but do not be fooled- all of their fragrances are heavenly and you quickly find another 1, 2, or even 3 items for your shopping list.

Click here for more on Bath & Body Works

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Monday, January 15, 2018

I am a foodie of note, which you would know if you are a regular follower of my blog. Working in social media means that I am constantly exposed to the newest, best and brightest of everything. While few things capture my eye, a good restaurant or a travel deal are guaranteed to knab my attention within seconds.

So when the new restaurant called Marigold launched in Franschoek I was intrigued, to say the least, there were gorgeous images splashed across Facebook and Instagram and I started to have some serious #fomo ... yes, for reals. It was then that Marigold Restaurant progressed to my #2018 wishlist without hesitation. Marigold is housed in Heritage Square and complements the Leeu Collection hospitality portfolio.

These past holidays I made a lunch date with a long-time friend who lives in Franschoek, and the two of us toddled along for lunch at Marigold Restaurant.

My Marigold Restaurant Experience

Being an authentic Indian restaurant Marigold's serve truly unique Indian dishes which you may struggle to find elsewhere. The tone is immediately set once you enter the quaint venue which seats a maximum of 60 people. The decor is rich in metals and warm tones all speaking to the namesake and inspiration of marigolds which are a vibrant orange.

The tables are beautifully set and arranged so as to get as much intimacy and privacy for the individual tables,  as you can within the confines such a small space. The beautifully screened windows are not only decorative but filter the bright light coming in, and they once again add to the rooms beauty and ambience.

The problem is where to start on the menu? We that's easy, start with the #Thali.

What is Thali you may ask?
“Thali” is a composite and wholesome meal with various small portions served on one platter. The idea behind the Thali is to offer all the various flavours of Indian kitchen – sweet, salty, spicy, crispy and sour.

A Thali feast

At Marigold it is offering of what our chef likes the best  and was a composite of the following:

Vegetarian - R280 
- One vegetarian Indian street food
- One vegetarian tandoori starters
- One vegetarian main dish
- One Basmati Rice
- One Dal Preparation
- One Salad
- One Yoghurt
- One tandoori naan
- One dessert

Non-vegetarian - 320 
- One non-vegetarian Indian street food (fish goujons)
- One non-vegetarian tandoori starters (tandoori chicken)
- One non-vegetarian main dish (lamb kebab)
- One Basmati Rice
- One Dal Preparation (we had yellow dal)
- One Salad
- One Yoghurt (Raita)
- One tandoori naan
- One dessert (yoghurt khulfi ice-cream lollie)

While the servings may look meagre to the naked eye, I promise you that you will be busting at the seams once you have finished your Thali.

"The individual dishes are flavour filled and a virtual feast for the senses whilst the khulfi cleanses the pallet and leaves you feeling refreshed."

The waitrons are so efficient, maybe a little too serious but Sive our waiter was all that you would expect from a fine-dining establishment (he did smile for his photo). The uniforms are reminiscent of a bygone Victorian era and very impressive.

All-in-all from the food, the presentation the beautiful venue it is a dining experience to beat, and I will definitely be back to sample the normal menu and once again tantalise my taste buds.


For more info, click here - Marigold Restaurant

** Disclaimer -  This is not a sponsored post but my own personal experience and expense

Thursday, January 04, 2018

Chocolate has evolved to somewhat of a connoisseurs art, it no longer is simply just those regular mass produced " candy bars", but rather encompasses the artisanal.

I recently got to venture through Franschoek where I stumbled upon a tucked away gem called SCOOP and De Villiers Chocolate Cafe.

Background on De Villiers Chocolate

Africa produces more than 70% of the world’s cocoa beans but makes less than 1% of the world’s chocolate. With most of this 1% being low quality milk chocolate, we are one of only a handful of chocolate companies producing high premium, quality artisan chocolate on the continent.

We were the first ‘Bean to Bar’ artisanal chocolate maker in South Africa and amongst only a few in the world. Most of the chocolate currently available on the market is mass produced by large international companies. Produced from cocoa mass or liquor and treated as a commodity, there is no acknowledgement of the farmer or chocolate maker in the process. We make our chocolate from carefully sourced cocoa beans where the chocolate reflects the personality and passion of the maker.

All of our cocoa beans are traceable to farm level and are free from any people exploitation. Our African Collection, Sweet Hand Crafted Collection and enrobed fruit are UTZ certified, meaning that we support sustainable cocoa farming where farmers implement practices with respect for people and planet. 
For more info explore the De Villiers Chocolate Website

De Villiers has a selection of handcrafted artisanal chocolates which you can choose from and make up your own personal selection box, and let me tell you the choice is rather overwhelming. Box prices range as follows:

5 chocolates @R59
9 chocolates @R87
15 chocolates @126

So, of course, I had to take advantage of the opportunity and taste some to give you feedback (yeah right, as if .... tee hee).

Chocolate heaven uncovered

I choose the 5 chocolate assortment box with the honey, strawberry, raspberry, coconut and chilli chocolates. Here is my review ...

Appearance: yellow speckled
Taste: A rich dark chocolate with a honey filling and a hazelnut in the centre.

Appearance: Milk chocolate heart with pink brush strokes
Taste: Milk chocolate with a soft strawberry fondant type filling which is naturally slightly tarte

Appearance: A dark chocolate square with dried raspberry sprinkles
Taste: A dark chocolate paired with a tart rapberry mousse filling, becareful of the rapberry seeds

Appearance: A blonde moulded chocolate
Taste: A creamy blonde chocolate with a tender creamy coconut centre

(sorry for the dark chocolate from the knife ... my bad ... tee hee)

Last but definitely not least is the host stuff!

Appearance: A dark chocolate square with a fine sprinkle of chilli
Taste: A dark chocolate square with a soft dark chocolate centre with a chilli after-bite

I have to be honest and say that I enjoyed each and every one of the chocolates, what I love is that the chocolate is neither too bitter nor too sweet.

De Villiers chocolates also have the cafe and ice cream bar called SCOOP in the same premises but I will cover these in a different post.

This is not a sponsored post.

Wednesday, January 03, 2018

I recently reviewed some wonderful satin pillowslips and I just wanted to share that once again Dear Deer have come up with the most amazing additions!

Dear Deer add two new sizes to their collection

As you all know I love nothing more than finding me an spoil, but what I am about to share will suit both the little and maybe the larger in your life. Now now, settle down ladies I'm not going down that road, let keep it about the waistline.

Tee hee ... however, this is for the bedroom, just saying!

Here's a hint ...

Dear dear continually comes up with new and interesting innovations. Today it's time to bring you the mini-pillowcase and the king size pillowslip aka continental pillowslip.

The colour range which includes:
- Vanilla
- Grey
- Blue
- White
- Fawn
- Rose
- Fuschia

You can now get it in either a small travel size or alternatively, you can get the King size pillowslip. These are available in your favourite colours and are available online now.

So come on girls, I know Christmas is over But they were still time for one last little spoil. I've got mine #sorrynotsorry

For those frequent flyers and travellers, I would highly highly recommend the little mini pillow and satin pillowcase. It is not only great at preventing you from getting those lines and wrinkles (pillow squish) while snoozing on the plane or hotel, but is small enough to sneak in your overnight bag.

However, for those who love to sleep comfort and style with plenty of pillows and plush cushions, then the King size pillow will surely be your only source of comfort. It is the ultimate luxury and something that will not only spoil you, but it will also add a little Hollywood style glamour to your "boudoir" and bed.

Prices you can afford

1. Mini/ Travel Pillow
- inner: R80
- pillowslip: R150

2. Continental Pillow
- Pillowslip: R225

Why should you consider a satin pillowcase? 

Here are 3 good reasons out of many:

After all, now you can have it ... in big, small or medium girls the choice is yours...

Oops, did I say that. .. Dear deer me!


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Sunday, December 31, 2017

Recently a friend of mine came up from Scotland and I decided to take a tour of the peninsula which I will get into more in another post. The best part of the journey was stopping for dinner in an area known as Kalk Bay in Cape Town, part of the activities planned was that we were going to have dinner that night at the Brass Bell Restaurant.
The Brass Bell is a local legend in the Cape and for myself and growing up in Kommetjie and Fish Hoek it was quite an adventure to return here.  I was somewhat surprised at the same time I had never seen the renovations. The restaurant itself is now to divided into three different areas with an outdoor deck beach pool area and also an inside pub area, followed by a more casual dining area all of which are facing onto the beautiful crashing waves.

Brass Bell Restaurant Dining Experience

On this particular evening, we decided to choose a casual dining option as we had been busy and on the run all day, and we didn't feel like lots of loud music. It is important to note that the beach and pool areas are only open during the day. The inside of the restaurant is really really basic with wooden benches and tables reminiscent of a rustic fisherman style, but the food itself is mainly seafood and offers the freshest and the most traditional. Dishes include Catch Of The Day, Hake & Chips (white firm-fleshed stockfish), to Calamari( also known as Squid), to fresh Oysters. The restaurant offers a wide variety and still caters to the carnivores with options like steak and Pork Belly.

Our meal consisted of a fresh Oysters just bursting with flavour and a hint of Tabasco, Hake and chips for him and Calamari and chips for myself. We rounded off our meal with cappuccinos to cleanse the palate and give us a kick of energy to keep going until we got to respective homes.

The service was excellent the waiters and waitresses were very friendly and the food arrived quickly. It was hot and fresh ... seafood at it's best, and overall a wonderful experience.
Thank you, Brass Bell for a lovely evening and I will differently be back in the near future.

Sadly I forgot to take pictures so please forgive me *cheesy grin*

For more info and bookings: CALL BRASS BELL

** Disclaimer 2 - this is not a sponsored post Images the Brass Bell

Saturday, December 30, 2017

In South Africa, we are really spoilt for choice when it comes to scenic routes, beautiful sightseeing, national parks and tours. One might even be tempted to say we are privileged down here in the Cape.

With sun, sea, vineyards, mountains, desert, game farms and so so much more, one truly is spoilt for choice ... but sadly us locals tend to take this land of natural beauty for granted. Well, that is until you are reminded by visitors/ friends who do not get to share this glorious piece of heaven.

I recently got to show a longtime friend of mine around our beautiful peninsula (I will be doing a few posts) and so I thought I would share our time exploring Boulders Beach and seeing the penguins.

Boulders Beach and African Penguin Colony

Boulders Beach is a wildlife sanctuary and home to more than 2000 penguins, as part of South Africa's National Parks (SANS) it is very much a controlled access area and is surprisingly well governed.

Here is what you need to know:
Boulders Penguin Colony in Simons Town is home to a unique and endangered land-based colony of African Penguins. This colony is one of only a few in the world, and the site has become famous and a popular international tourist destination.

The Boulders Beach colony consists of 3 pristine beaches, 1 penguin viewing area and 3 boardwalks. The boardwalks were built as a measure to allow for viewing of these wonderful birds, whilst keeping them safe from poking fingers. Please respect these birds and be sure to stay on the boardwalks at all times within the viewing area. (We actually saw people scaling the boulders to intrude on the bird sanctuary ... shame on you humans!)

There is both the sanctuary and a small little cove with a beach, this area is ideal for children as immense boulders shelter the cove from currents, wind and large waves - but please always take care (also note that there is an entry fee).

Penguins, the more the merrier

Here are some pictures from our day out. I just love these beautiful gentlemen of the sea in their impressive Tuxedo's, what a show they make ... albeit comical at times.

You sometimes have to look twice to see the penguins hidden under the rocks they are so well camouflaged.

You can also see that many of the chicks are still moulting (this can take up to 2 years according to the boards at the sanctuary .... sheesh!)

On the day we got to see these unusual man-made nests as well as a variety of other nests which were under rocks, in the bush and even hollowed out of the sand. These sea creatures are really adaptable when it comes to making a hearth. See below ... 

PLEASE NOTE: Don't touch or feed the penguins – they may look cute and cuddly but their beaks are as sharp as razors and if they feel threatened they have no qualms about nipping the odd finger or nose.

So there you have it, another great Cape Town tourist attraction and for the locals who have yet to go. what are you waiting for?

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